LGBTQ+ Friendly Destination Wedding Locations

Mexico and the Caribbean are the best destination wedding locations for LGBTQ+ destination wedding couples in 2023 for a number of reasons. These include their warm climates, welcoming people and governments, picturesque beauty, exciting nightlife, and a range of recreational activities for newlyweds to partake in.

All of the locations we’ll discuss below are known for their rich culture and history, giving couples the chance to deepen their connection to each other and the surrounding community. Couples can choose this by exploring off-site, or some resorts even offer unique cultural ceremonies that you can include as part of your gay wedding.

These tropical locations have seen a rapid evolution towards greater equality for LGBT people in recent years and have implemented progressive legislation in support, making them ideal for couples who wish to both celebrate and affirm their union.

As an additional bonus, Mexico and the Caribbean are relatively easy to access from nearly any major city in the US, giving couples from all over the world the opportunity to plan a perfect destination wedding.

No Stress and Easy Planning

No one should have to worry about that extra step of legality to keep them from celebrating their love. With progressive mindsets transforming the way global destinations treat LGBTQ+ to-be-newlyweds, we’re excited to share the list of our favorite friendly LGBTQ+ destination wedding locations to tie the knot.

Love always wins with Destify, and our award-winning agents are experts at hosting same-sex weddings at stunning locations where you’re free to be yourself. These wedding resorts guarantee excellence every step of the way, and deliver perfect experiences for all lovebirds no matter their sexual orientation:

Mexico Destination Wedding Locations

Mexico’s open and liberal attitudes toward LGBTQ+ destination weddings make it a great place for couples to plan and host their wedding. The country has a growing number of vendors and venues that cater to same-sex couples and LGBTQ+ couples. There are also some parts of Mexico that have taken the extra step to recognize same-sex marriages. This can help couples to feel more secure and relaxed in the knowledge that they are legally binding and recognized as a married couple.

Planning a wedding can be a stressful process, but with the help of gay-friendly vendors, couples can rest assured that their wedding will go off without a hitch. At Destify, we only work with resorts that can provide a top-tier experience for both couples and their guests.

Since a Supreme Court order in 2015, all LGBTQ+ marriages performed in Mexico or abroad must be recognized by the government on a federal level. Because Mexico is going through a period of transition and progress, when equality for all is on the horizon, gay and lesbian couples can now get married anywhere in the country, including Cancun.

For more adventurous couples who would prefer to leave the resort and explore the local ‘gaybourhood’, there is perhaps no better choice than the resorts of Puerto Vallarta. Here you will find vibrant nightlife, delicious seafood, and a welcoming community that welcomes everyone with open arms. There are many destination wedding locations in this gay mecca, from the newer area of Bahia Mita with its modern resorts, to luxury all-inclusive steps away from the famed Zona Romantica zone.

Riu Palace Cabo San Lucas

Nestled on the stunning Baja California Peninsula, Riu Palace Cabo San Lucas is one of our favorite LGBTQ-friendly wedding venues. This resort stands out with luxurious amenities, breathtaking ocean views, and a welcoming atmosphere. Known for its commitment to inclusivity, Riu Palace makes every couple feel celebrated and valued.

Destination wedding locations at Riu Palace Cabo San Lucas can accommodate up to 50 guests with spacious venues ranging from beachside ceremonies to elegant indoor receptions. Guests can indulge in world-class dining, relax by the infinity pools, or explore the vibrant nightlife of Cabo San Lucas.

For couples seeking adventure, nearby attractions include snorkeling, whale watching, and exploring the iconic El Arco rock formation. Whether you dream of a tranquil beach wedding or a lively celebration, Riu Palace Cabo San Lucas is the perfect LGBTQ wedding venue.

Wyndham Alltra Vallarta

Wyndham Alltra Vallarta is a vibrant, inclusive haven that stands out from other top destination wedding locations. Located in the heart of Puerto Vallarta, this resort combines modern luxury with authentic Mexican charm for a unique and memorable celebration.

Wyndham Alltra Vallarta is renowned for its welcoming environment, making it one of the best destination wedding locations for LGBTQ+ couples. Whether you envision an intimate beach ceremony or a grand ballroom reception, the resort’s experienced wedding planners will bring your vision to life.

Guests will enjoy the resort’s stunning ocean views, multiple dining options, and extensive recreational activities. Puerto Vallarta’s famous nightlife and vibrant LGBTQ+ community add an extra layer of excitement, allowing couples and their guests to immerse themselves in the local culture. 

Even more of the following resorts offer an impressive track record of happy Destify Couples, with a variety of wedding perks available for both couples and their guests:

Grand Fiesta Americana Puerto Vallarta

The Fives Azul Beach

Hyatt Ziva Puerto Vallarta

Occidental at Xcaret

Dreams Riviera Cancun

Dreams Riviera Cancun Resort & Spa by the Hyatt All-inclusive Collection, an oceanfront family-friendly resort, will transport you to an island paradise. All those stories about difficult wedding planning won’t have to be true for you with a wedding coordinator on-site to assist you with all of your planning, including everything on the day of the wedding, as well as a world-class spa!

Instead, you’ll unwind with your guests and say your “I do’s” on the beach, surrounded by the most beautiful floral arch and the calm roar of the ocean waves, before rejoining your friends for cocktail hour on the terrace and a private reception on the white sand (or ballroom, if you prefer an indoor celebration). No dream is too big for the personnel at Dreams Riviera Cancun Resort & Spa by Hyatt All-inclusive Collection, so let them assist you in making your happiest day a reality!

Share Your Love on the Caribbean Islands

The Caribbean is one of the top destination wedding locations for gay couples in the entire world. The reasons for that are numerous. The Caribbean offers a wide range of options for both ceremonies and receptions, from beach-side ceremonies to high-end luxury resorts for a lavish affair.

Many of the Caribbean islands have a long history of celebrating same-sex unions or are now actively taking measures to support them. Lastly, the Caribbean offers year-round warm weather, which lets couples also plan outdoor weddings, with fresh ocean breezes, palm trees, and an amazing backdrop of azure seas on any date of your calendar.

There are many spectacular LGBTQ+ destination locations such as Barbados, the Dominican Republic, and Aruba, which offer many activities and attractions, including fantastic beaches, top-notch restaurants, and local nightlife, as well as a variety of beautiful resorts tailored to suit every budget.

Further LGBTQ+-friendly places in this breathtaking region include Saint Martin, Martinique, and Bermuda. Some of the Caribbean’s smaller islands are also truly gay-friendly. Consider Curacao, a true tropical slice of paradise with a cute town front of buildings painted every color of the rainbow. There are lively gay communities here, as well as lovely resorts ideal for holding your wedding.

Riu Palace Aruba

Set on the pristine shores of Palm Beach, Riu Palace Aruba is a stunning and inclusive environment for LGBTQ+ couples looking to tie the knot. This resort is celebrated for its vibrant atmosphere, luxurious amenities, and exceptional service, making it one of the top destination wedding locations in the Caribbean.

The beautiful beachfront setting and the resort’s elegant design create an unforgettable backdrop for your celebration. Guests can indulge in the resort’s multiple dining options, relax by the pool, or explore the local attractions. 

Aruba is known for its welcoming LGBTQ+ community and high-spirited nightlife which provide ample opportunities for both fun and relaxation. The island’s year-round warm weather and stunning natural beauty make Riu Palace Aruba an ideal choice for couples seeking a tropical paradise for their destination wedding.

Dreams Curacao

Located on the picturesque shores of Piscadera Bay, Dreams Curacao provides a serene and welcoming environment for LGBTQ+ couples. This resort combines the charm of the Caribbean with luxurious amenities, making it one of the best destination wedding locations for a memorable celebration.

Dreams Curacao is renowned for its inclusive atmosphere and exceptional service. Couples can choose from stunning beach ceremonies, lush garden settings, or sophisticated indoor venues.

Guests will enjoy the resort’s world-class dining options, multiple pools, and recreational activities. Curacao’s rich cultural heritage and strong LGBTQ+ community provide a warm and welcoming wedding scene. The island’s beautiful beaches, colorful architecture, and lively nightlife mean endless opportunities for exploration and enjoyment, making Dreams Curacao an ideal location for an unforgettable destination wedding.

Secrets St. Martin

Nestled on the secluded Anse Marcel Beach, Secrets St. Martin is an exquisite and inclusive setting for LGBTQ+ couples looking to celebrate their love. This resort blends French Caribbean elegance with modern luxury, making it one of the most enchanting destination wedding locations.

Whether you envision a romantic beach ceremony or a sophisticated indoor reception, the stunning natural beauty of St. Martin, combined with the resort’s elegant design, creates the perfect backdrop for your special day.

Guests can indulge in gourmet dining, relax in the infinity pool, or explore the island’s vivacious culture and nightlife. St. Martin is known for its friendly LGBTQ+ community and welcoming atmosphere, making it a perfect destination for couples seeking a warm and accepting environment. With its luxurious amenities and breathtaking scenery, Secrets St. Martin is one of the most popular LGBTQ-friendly wedding venues.

Celebrating Love in the Dominican Republic

Nestled in the heart of the Caribbean, the Dominican Republic is one of the best destination wedding locations—its warmth and acceptance make it a premier choice for LGBTQ+ destination weddings. Known for its vibrant culture, breathtaking landscapes, and progressive attitude towards LGBTQ+ rights, this island paradise is an idyllic backdrop for couples to tie the knot. 

Whether you’re dreaming of a beachfront ceremony or a lavish resort gala, the Dominican Republic presents a variety of venues that promise a memorable and inclusive celebration. It’s also one of the most affordable destination wedding locations!

Hard Rock Punta Cana

Embrace the ultimate wedding extravaganza at Hard Rock Punta Cana, where luxury meets inclusivity. This resort is famed for its vibrant atmosphere and exceptional service, tailored to meet the unique needs of every couple. LGBTQ+ guests will be welcomed with open arms, with access to bespoke wedding packages that include everything from intimate beachside ceremonies to grand ballroom galas. The resort’s commitment to celebrating diversity is evident in its comprehensive offerings, so every aspect of your wedding is spectacular.

Majestic Elegance Punta Cana

For those seeking elegance and exclusivity, Majestic Elegance Punta Cana offers a refined setting for your special day. This resort specializes in creating personalized experiences that cater to the desires of LGBTQ+ couples so that your wedding reflects your true self. From custom decor to private dining under the stars, Majestic Elegance has a sophisticated charm and attentive staff, set against the stunning backdrop of Punta Cana’s sandy shores.

Panama: A Canvas of Color and Culture

Panama is a gem of Central America, featuring lush landscapes and rich history that make it stand out as an idyllic location for LGBTQ+ couples planning their dream wedding. This vibrant country offers a mix of modern luxury and natural beauty, providing a perfect setting for an inclusive celebration of love. It’s one of our top destination wedding locations for a reason!

Dreams Playa Bonita Panama

Just a stone’s throw from the bustling streets of Panama City, Dreams Playa Bonita offers an oasis of serenity and romance for LGBTQ+ weddings. This resort caters to those who dream of a wedding that blends tropical elegance with breathtaking ocean views. Couples can exchange vows on a secluded beach or amidst the lush gardens with every detail carefully orchestrated to reflect their combined style and cultural traditions. 

Head to the Jungles of Costa Rica

Costa Rica has become a welcoming place for same-sex couples who wish to marry. In 2018, the country’s Supreme Court has ruled that same-sex marriage is legal in Costa Rica, and since then more and more same-sex couples have come to the country to get married.

Costa Rica also offers a range of benefits for same-sex couples, such as the ability to adopt children, access to healthcare, and joint inheritance rights. This newfound recognition of same-sex relationships has been a major reason why more and more LGBTQ+ couples are opting to get married in Costa Rica.

Costa Rica boasts both Caribbean and Pacific side beaches, a vibrant culture, and some of the most beautiful landscapes in Central America. From jungle waterfalls and majestic rainforests to remote towns and vibrant cities, Costa Rica has something to offer everyone.

Gay couples looking for a romantic Costa Rica LGBTQ+ destination wedding can choose from a variety of gorgeous resorts offering all-inclusive packages and breathtaking vistas. Symbolic ceremonies have long been accepted, but now legal weddings may be considered as well.

Whether you are looking for a romantic beach wedding, a glamorous ballroom, an oceanside bonfire, or a jungle celebration, Costa Rica has the perfect backdrop for a memories-filled wedding day. Costa Rica also offers some of the best deals on flights, accommodations, and wedding packages in Central America, making it an ideal destination for couples ready to say “I Do!”

Secrets Papagayo

Situated on the pristine shores of the Papagayo Peninsula, Secrets Papagayo is a serene setting that redefines gay-friendly wedding venues. This adults-only resort combines the natural beauty of Costa Rica with world-class amenities, making it one of the top destination wedding locations for an intimate and romantic celebration.

Couples can exchange vows on the secluded beach, amidst lush tropical gardens, or in elegantly designed indoor venues. With its natural beauty, luxury, and inclusivity, Secrets Papagayo is an ideal setting for a dream destination wedding.

Guests will enjoy the resort’s gourmet dining options, relaxing spa services, and a range of outdoor activities, including hiking and snorkeling. Costa Rica’s welcoming attitude towards LGBTQ+ couples and breathtaking landscapes create the perfect backdrop for your wedding. 

Planet Hollywood Costa Rica

For couples seeking a glamorous and inclusive wedding venue, Planet Hollywood Costa Rica is a spectacular resort set on the stunning Papagayo Peninsula. This resort blends Hollywood-inspired luxury with the natural beauty of Costa Rica, making it one of the top destination wedding locations for a truly memorable celebration.

Planet Hollywood Costa Rica stands out with its unique Hollywood-themed decor, giving couples a red-carpet experience from start to finish. The resort boasts multiple picturesque locations for your ceremony, including a beautiful beachfront with golden sands and lush tropical gardens.

Planet Hollywood’s extensive amenities include gourmet dining options that cater to all tastes, from fine dining restaurants to casual eateries featuring international cuisines. For entertainment, guests can enjoy themed pools, a state-of-the-art fitness center, and the PH Spa & Beauty Bar for relaxation and pampering.

Creating Your Perfect LGBTQ+ Wedding Abroad

Planning an LGBTQ+ destination wedding requires careful consideration so your celebration respects local customs and legalities. Understanding the local laws and cultural climate of your chosen destination is a must for a smooth and joyful wedding experience. Here are some essential tips:

Selecting the Right Venue

Choosing the ideal location for your LGBTQ+ destination wedding goes beyond picturesque views and luxurious amenities. Find a venue that welcomes LGBTQ+ couples while respecting and celebrating their union. Understanding the legal requirements and social atmosphere of your chosen destination is essential. Finding a venue in a region with legal protections and acceptance of LGBTQ+ marriages will provide peace of mind and guarantee that your ceremony holds legal weight.

Integrating Local Culture

Enhancing your wedding by incorporating elements of the local culture can transform a beautiful ceremony into an unforgettable experience. Consider adding local cuisine to your menu, using regional flora in your floral arrangements, or including a local music ensemble to enrich the ceremony and reception. These touches pay homage to the destination’s heritage creating a unique, culturally rich celebration that stands out.

Working with Local Experts

Collaborate with local vendors who are experienced in planning and executing LGBTQ+ weddings. Local planners and suppliers understand the cultural nuances and legal specifics that might affect your wedding. This inside knowledge is invaluable for navigating potential challenges to help your special day go off without a hitch.

Respecting Local Customs and Legalities

Understanding and respecting local customs and legal requirements is critical for an international wedding. This might mean adjusting certain traditional elements of your wedding to fit local norms. Incorporating local culture into your wedding can elevate the celebration. It can be as simple as incorporating local flavors into your wedding menu, choosing native flowers for decorations, or including traditional music and dances. 

For more insights and tips on planning your ideal LGBTQ+ wedding abroad, check out our related blog posts on LGBTQ+ wedding planning tips and discover how to create a celebration that truly reflects your love and values.

Want to explore further options? Here are a few more Costa Rica properties to explore and host your unforgettable LGBTQ+ destination wedding at:

Dreams Las Mareas

RIU Guanacaste

Your Journey to a Safe LGBTQ+ Destination Wedding

In a world where love knows no bounds, planning an LGBTQ wedding abroad is exhilarating. But don’t forget to walk the planning path with both eyes open. As you begin this adventure toward marital bliss, safety and inclusivity must be at the forefront of your planning process. 

This guide aims to empower LGBTQ+ couples with vital information and tips to ensure a safe, respectful, and unforgettable destination wedding experience. From selecting LGBTQ-friendly wedding venues to understanding local customs and legalities, we’re here to help you celebrate your love safely and proudly. Are you ready to start planning your dream wedding with confidence and peace of mind?

Choosing Your Gay Wedding Destination Wisely

Planning your wedding is a time of joy and celebration, and choosing the right destination is a critical first step. Before setting your heart on a location, research is key, as not all destinations are created equal when it comes to LGBTQ+ rights and acceptance. You could consider destinations renowned for their inclusivity, but don’t let your dreams be limited. 

Destify has professional partners in destinations across the globe who can ensure seamless LGBTQ destination weddings for any couple, whether you want a minimalist lesbian beach wedding or an extravagant gay celebration. While the allure of exotic locations is undeniable, understanding the local laws and social climate is crucial to ensure your enjoyment of your big day. Find a beautiful backdrop for your vows in a place where your love is celebrated and same-sex weddings are legal.

Vetting Vendors for LGBTQ+ Friendliness

When it comes to choosing vendors for your destination wedding, you need to look beyond their portfolio or pricing. Take the opportunity to ensure they embrace and respect your identity. When browsing for photographers, caterers, florists, or any other service providers, look for signs of LGBTQ+ inclusivity. 

This could be anything from inclusive language on their website to direct experience with LGBTQ+ weddings. Don’t hesitate to ask direct questions about their approach to serving diverse couples. Your wedding should be a reflection of your love, free from any discomfort or prejudice, and choosing the right vendors plays a significant role in this.

Understanding and Respecting Local Cultures

While your gay or lesbian wedding is, first and foremost, a celebration of your love, it’s essential to be aware of and respect the local culture and norms of your destination. Some destinations may have different attitudes toward LGBTQ+ relationships, and being informed can help you navigate these nuances sensitively. 

Before your big day, research the cultural and social landscape of your chosen destination. This could involve understanding local customs, standings on LGBTQ+ rights, or even just the general societal attitude. Awareness and sensitivity to local cultures can significantly enhance your wedding experience and ensure it’s a joyful and respectful occasion for everyone involved.

Ensuring Personal Safety and Comfort

Personal safety and comfort are paramount when planning a destination wedding, as it will all be taking place outside of your comfort zone. It’s essential to familiarize yourself with your chosen destination’s cultural and legal landscape. 

Research local customs and norms regarding LGBTQ+ rights, and if you’re unsure about the local climate, consider hiring a local LGBTQ-friendly guide who can provide insights and support during your stay

Sealing Your Love with Confidence 

As your wedding day approaches, remember to prioritize creating a safe, inclusive, and joyous gay wedding experience. Every step is crucial in shaping your big day, from picking the perfect locale to partnering with the right vendors. 

Ready to turn your wedding dreams into reality? Reach out to Destify, and let’s make your day as unique and special as your love story.

Destination Wedding Planning Tips for LGBTQ Couples

How To Craft An Authentic Celebration of Love

LGBTQ+ wedding planning is kind of like setting out on an exciting journey with no map. With out years of traditional planning to explore like hetero relationships, same-sex and LGBTQIA+ weddings are carving out their own beautiful path that deserves to be spotlighted and shared from around the world. 

But many questions may pop up: “Do both brides walk down the aisle?” or “Is it ok for both grooms to rock a bouquet?”. The cool part is that there is no right or wrong answer.

Gone are the days of strictly following age-old wedding blueprints. Instead, we’ve got couples embracing their unique love stories, ditching some traditions, and creating new ones that feel just right. We’ve had some great chats with experts and even our LGBTQ+ couples about how they’re making their big days feel genuine to them.

So, if you’re piecing together your LGBTQ+ wedding plans, here’s a little wisdom on weaving together a day that feels as authentic as your love story. Let’s get into it!

Selecting the Venue 

Your wedding venue isn’t just a backdrop; it’s the stage where your love story unfolds. And for LGBT couples, it’s important to pick a place that’s all about celebrating love – not just nodding politely from the sidelines. Dig around a bit and look for venues that have a track record for rolling out the red carpet for everyone, being inclusive of your love and needs.

A top tip? Check out what other LGBTQ couples have to say. Their experiences can be like gold in helping you feel the real atmosphere of a place, seeking venues renowned for their inclusivity. It’s not all about the glitz and glam but finding that welcoming vibe where your love is front and center. If you need a hand finding that perfect venue, browse more blogs from Destify, which offers a trove of impeccable destinations that champion love in all its forms. 

Keep Culture Center Stage

Navigating religion and culture as an LGBTQ+ couple can sometimes feel like a balancing act. Even if the big religious picture seems a bit blurry, there’s good news: many kind-hearted souls within these faiths are rooting for love in all its colors. 

It might take a bit more legwork to find your appropriate venue, but trust us when you do, they’ll make your day feel all the more special. They get it. And their blessings will add that extra layer of warmth and depth to your big day. It’s all about finding that connection that celebrates your love both in spirit and in joy. 

Embrace or Adapt Traditions 

An LGBT+ or same-sex wedding ceremony is a canvas of limitless possibilities. Traditional norms? They’re just starting points. From modifying the processional order to infusing unique symbols that represent your journey, there’s freedom in reinvention. Let your love story dictate the rituals, and if something doesn’t resonate, craft your own traditions. 

After all, your celebration should mirror the authenticity and uniqueness of your bond. Embrace the past, but don’t be afraid to pave your path forward. It’s your day, and the traditions should be as special and “unconventional” as your love story.

Dress Code Freedom 

Your wedding attire should echo your true self. Gone are the days of rigid dress codes. With popular lesbian wedding ideas embracing chic bridal suits and gay weddings for men showcasing vibrant tuxedos, the horizon of fashion choices is vast. 

Whether it’s a twist on the traditional or a completely avant-garde look, let your outfits celebrate your individuality. After all, it’s about wearing your heart on your sleeve, quite literally.

Pre-wedding Celebrations 

Remember when pre-wedding events were split into ‘his’ and ‘hers’? Well, times have changed, and it’s all about coming together and celebrating love without limits. Fancy throwing a joint bachelor or bachelorette party? Why not? And a combined wedding shower? Sounds like double the fun! The goal is to make every pre-wedding moment just as unforgettable as the day you say “I do.” If you need a little spark of inspiration, Vogue offers a treasure trove of innovative LGBTQ+ wedding ideas that embrace both tradition and novelty, ensuring your pre-wedding festivities are as unique as your love story.

Designing A Wedding of Dreams

LGBTQ+ celebrations stand as poignant reminders of love’s universal resonance. Recent strides put same-sex couples at a unique crossroads: honoring long-standing traditions while also breaking new ground. The questions and decisions can be daunting, but remember, they offer an opportunity to craft a wedding that truly speaks to your love’s individual journey.

From venue selection to harmonizing traditions and cultures, the choices you make will set the stage for a celebration that’s both authentic and memorable. Embrace the freedom to blend time-honored customs with contemporary touches, ensuring every aspect of your day reflects the depth and richness of your relationship.

In the end, it’s about more than just a ceremony or a festivity. It’s a profound testament to the progress made and the enduring power of love. To all LGBTQ+ couples stepping into this beautiful chapter: may your wedding not only reflect the love you share but also inspire and uplift others on similar journeys. 

Beautiful Ways to Personalize Any Queer Wedding

Planning a wedding is all about crafting a day that feels unmistakably you. And for queer couples, this rings especially true. Beyond choosing a venue or selecting a cake flavor, queer weddings are about celebrating your unique journey with every detail. 

While we’re all too aware that navigating the landscape of queer weddings can be challenging, remember that this is your love story. Let’s find ways to paint every moment with your colors, making your wedding an unforgettable reflection of who you both are.

Making Every Moment of Your Queer Wedding Truly Yours 

Selecting the right venue is about more than aesthetics; it’s about feeling embraced and celebrated in every way. And when it comes to a queer wedding, it’s essential to choose a place where love is the only language spoken. 

Thankfully, numerous destinations featured on Destify are renowned for their LGBTQ-friendly vibes. Be it a serene beach resort or a charming European town, ensure your chosen venue embodies inclusivity. Doing so will not only make your wedding day feel more genuine but will also offer peace of mind to you and your guests.

Choose An LGBTQ-friendly Destination

Destinations like Puerto Vallarta, renowned for its golden beaches that stretch as far as the eye can see, have emerged as a queer pardise. As a destination, it pulsates with life, from its lively boardwalks adorned with art installations to its bustling nightlife, where music and laughter fill the air. 

The warmth isn’t just in its sun; the locals of Puerto Vallarta exude an openness, ensuring that every visitor feels embraced and celebrated. This welcoming spirit has rightfully crowned the city as a favored hub for LGBTQ celebrations. 

Among its plethora of resorts, the Hyatt Ziva is an LGBTQ wedding venue that stands out. Known for its commitment to inclusivity, this resort doesn’t just welcome queer couples—it celebrates them, making it a prime choice for couples looking to tie the knot amid luxury and acceptance.

Queer Wedding Outfit Inspirations

Wedding attire should be a reflection of who you are. In a lesbian wedding or gay wedding, it’s a beautiful opportunity to embrace your identity fully. Are you inclined toward a traditional look or perhaps something that defies the norms? 

Whichever path you choose, let it resonate with your unique story. The fashion world has seen a surge of diversity, with more designers catering to the LGBTQ community. If you’re seeking inspiration, this Vogue article offers a plethora of ideas for queer wedding outfits that strike the perfect balance between elegance and self-expression.

Incorporate Symbolic LGBTQ Elements

Symbols hold power, especially when they resonate with personal and communal stories. From the iconic rainbow flag to the pink triangle, queer symbols serve as proud markers of a journey full of resilience and love. 

Consider integrating these symbols into your wedding decor—be it through colorful table settings, invitation designs, or even as a cake topper. These emblematic touches will not only add depth to your celebration but will also tell a tale of pride and unity.

Support LGBTQ-owned Businesses

Every wedding involves a legion of professionals working behind the scenes. Why not make your big day an avenue to uplift and support the community? 

Collaborate with LGBTQ-owned businesses, from florists and caterers to LGBTQ wedding photographers. These professionals, rooted in the community, bring with them a unique perspective, ensuring your wedding feels authentically yours. Plus, by doing so, you’ll be playing a part in supporting queer entrepreneurs and their dreams.

Incorporate Queer Rituals into Your Special Day

A wedding ceremony is where two souls become one. Making this moment truly yours involves infusing it with rituals that speak to your journey. 

The queer community has a rich tapestry of traditional and new-age ceremonies. Whether it’s the touching “Handfasting” ceremony or lighting the “Unity Candle,” let these rituals be a mirror to your love story, speaking volumes of your union and the journey that led to this day.

Give Guests LGBTQ-themed Wedding Favors

The end of the wedding doesn’t mean the memories stop. Offer your guests a keepsake that embodies the spirit of your union. From rainbow-colored souvenirs and custom-designed LGBTQ-themed coasters to equality pins, let these favors be a tangible memento of a day filled with love, pride, and unity. It’s a small gesture, but one that will remind your loved ones of a celebration where love truly won.

• LGBTQ-friendly destination selection. Opt for destinations known for their inclusivity.
• Queer wedding outfit inspirations. Don’t be limited by heteronormative ideals of love — let your creativity shine through your attire!
• Incorporate symbolic LGBTQ elements. Use symbols like the rainbow flag, pink triangle, or interlocking gender symbols in decor, stationery, or cake design.
• Work with LGBTQ-owned Businesses. Collaborate with LGBTQ vendors, including photographers, caterers, and entertainers. 
• Spotlight on queer creativity. Incorporate readings from queer literature or LGBTQ activists during the ceremony.
• LGBTQ-themed accessories. Provide queer touches like rainbow-colored souvenirs, pride-themed coasters, or equality pins.
• Personalized vows. Write vows reflecting your shared experiences, challenges, and triumphs as a queer couple.
• Music to celebrate queer artists. Include songs from LGBTQ artists or anthems that have become symbolic in the queer community. Or hire a queer DJ!
• Photo booth with LGBTQ props. Offer props like rainbow boas, pride flags, or signs with LGBTQ slogans for fun photo moments.
• Guest book alternatives. Ask guests to share their own stories or messages about love and acceptance.

How To Hold a Gender-Neutral Wedding

Weddings have a traditionally gendered history. But gay weddings are about love and commitment, and true love doesn’t have to adhere to traditional gender roles!

Soon-to-be spouses and their wedding guests can exist anywhere on the gender spectrum, and a couple’s big day should reflect their gender identity.

If you’re looking for ways to hold a gender-neutral destination wedding, you’ve come to the right place!

Gender Neutral Wedding Terms

Using gender neutral terms and gender neutral language alternatives is the easiest and most effective way to host a gender-neutral wedding!

Focusing on using some of these gender-neutral terms creates a safe environment for everyone, regardless of gender identity!

There are many gender-neutral alternatives to the previously more traditional wedding terms.

Instead of ‘bridal suite,’ ‘bridal shower,’ ‘bridal party,’ etc., try using ‘wedding suite,’ and so on.

Rather than ‘bridesmaids’ or ‘groomsmen,’ use ‘attendants’ or ‘wedding party.’

And instead of using ‘bride and/or groom,’ stick to fiance, partner, significant other, nearly-wed, and so on.

Not only should you use these terms when addressing people in the wedding party, but you can hold a truly respectful gender-neutral wedding by using these terms in your wedding invitations and save-the-dates.

It’s easy: rather than using ‘Mr. and Mrs.,’ address each invitation with the guest’s name. Not only is this a gender-respectful move, but it also adds an individualized, personal touch to your save-the-dates!

Read more here if you’re interested in learning more about these gender-neutral terms.

Implementing these terms is a simple and effective way to be respectful to people from all walks of life and personal gender identities.

Gender-Neutral Fashion Choices

‘What to wear?’ is an eternal struggle for people every year leading up to a wedding. Flowing white dresses, black suits, and delicate wedding veils aren’t for everyone, and they give people very limited fashion options!

Shake off any preconceived notions of gendered fashion and encourage your guests to wear whatever they want! Encourage them to mix and match feminine, masculine, and gender-neutral traits as they see fit.

It can be as simple as a tailored two-piece suit, as fun as a stylish jumpsuit, a medium-length dress, or any combination of the above!

At the end of the day, let your guests feel comfortable in whatever fits them best and compliments their style and personal beauty preferences!

Traditions

Your wedding day is exactly that — it’s your day! Traditions are scaffolding to the past, and you should feel free to buck whichever trends you see fit, especially if you’re holding a gender-neutral destination wedding!

For one, you can choose mixed-gender wedding parties. Long gone are the days of bridesmaids and groomsmen being your only choices. Instead, both partners tying the knot should be able to choose whomever they want to be a part of their big day, attendants of all gender identities!

It’s about choosing the people closest to you to stand near you while you say ‘I do,’ not adhering to age-old gender traditions just for the sake of it!

Another tradition worth revisiting is the bouquet toss. Why limit this tradition to just the bride?

Both partners are being married, so both partners should be able to toss the bouquet or boutonniere into the crowd!

Gender-Neutral Restrooms

Non-gender-neutral bathrooms can significantly impact a gender-neutral wedding ceremony.

The reception location may already have gender-neutral facilities, or the couple may inquire whether such restrooms may be made available for the occasion.

Portable restrooms are always a gender-neutral alternative for an outdoor wedding or reception.

Book an Inclusive Wedding Resort

Possibly the most important point on this list!

Not all locations allow same-sex marriages, let alone gender-inclusive ceremonies.

Luckily, we at Destify have the inside scoop on which resorts are right for your gender-neutral, inclusive big day!

For example, properties like Hyatt Ziva Cancun and Dreams Riviera Cancun supply gender-neutral bathrooms and facilities inclusive of all gender identities.

We recommend Secrets Riviera Cancun.

Due to Mexico’s progressive attitudes toward the LGBTQ+ community and the resort’s status as an adults-only location, many queer couples choose it for their destination weddings.

In fact, about 30% of weddings at Secrets Riviera Cancun are LGBTQ+ in nature.

Best of all, according to its wedding website, the resort aspires to use gender-neutral terminology solely in its wedding ceremonies.

Book Your Gender-Neutral Destination Wedding Today

We’re here to take the anxiety and confusion out of wedding planning, so you enjoy every moment of your destination wedding, from your suite to saying ‘I Do’ to your sweetheart!